Thursday, December 6, 2007

so far behind

I haven't even been able to think about our wedding. Life is too insane right now. New job, moving, etc.
We are going to be starting pre-marital counseling (hopefully) soon. I know that this is a bit touchy of a subject, but I think it is really important. Scott and I differ a bit on this, but he is still willing to go with me. The thing is, most marriages end for all the same reasons. If we can talk to someone who has seen those and can see how our interactions may support those reasons, etc, then how can that be bad? Let's face it, some people are better at seeing our sins and relational missteps than we are! I firmly believe that this is not just for couples with 'problems'...all couples have problems. If they don't show up now, fear not, they will come calling. I guess I would rather invite them in and then kick their ass on my terms!!!

well, we may be getting married with ice tea, beer and cake if I don't get my ass in gear. We also may end up having to send out evites if I don't pull it together. gulp.

1 comment:

lyndsay said...

premarital counseling: not to mention it cuts a ton of dough off of your marriage lisence price! ('course this might just be in TN...hmm.....) either way, it's a good, good, good idea. :)